Your emotions will eventually surface, so it’s preferable that they emerge on your own terms.
Existence is inherently vexing. You stumble your toe, you can’t afford that desirable item, your occupation isn’t satisfying, or any other array of minor annoyances have a tendency to accumulate. This is also why individuals relish grumbling about things. Venting is purgative, it provides you with an opportunity to articulate your emotions, and it’s rather crucial for your psychological health.
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I maintain a small agreement with my parents whereby if I’m frightened, concerned, or annoyed about something in my life, even if it’s something trivial and insignificant, I can contact them and they can reassure me. As I’ve elucidated to them, sometimes I just need to be “vocally distressed” about something. This is why it’s so crucial to have a support system, whether composed of family, close pals, or trained experts. There are certain dilemmas that you simply can’t overcome by yourself; harboring frustrations and anxieties bottled up inside the reverberation chamber of your mind won’t aid you in resolving them. You’ll simply keep revolving in circles until it’s the only thing on your mind.
Regard your mind as an ancient cellar with a perpetual leak. You must periodically release the water properly, otherwise, it will start seeping through the floorboards of your daily existence. When you attempt to suppress fears and grievances, they seep out at inconvenient times, such as when you’re trying to enjoy yourself or be productive. I speak from experience when I mention that it’s simply not feasible to hold back things indefinitely. They will always resurface, so ensure you drain them out in a safe and constructive manner before your metaphorical rug gets stained.